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April 5, 2010 @ 9:00 pm
actually, I am not as upset as I was…I think that Sandra was seen to be the girl next door…she seems like a decent person who finally found someone. I am getting used to the betrayals in life, and the famous folks are not immune. Elizabeth Edwards, Elin Woods, Sandra Bullock…sometimes people change and some times when you want people to change they don’t. I think on some level Sandra more than paid for her “bad boy” attraction…The cheating is one thing, the public humiliation makes it worse. One advantage of not being famous I guess.
I still feel worse for EE’s kids…and she is fighting cancer. Sandra is a strong woman, she was on her own for a long time, she will rise again from this.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:06 pm
I am right there with you. Seriously, I think about her every couple of days. That’s crazy, isn’t it? I think it’s because she seems like a genuine, funny, thoughtful person (she went to the Razzies to pick up her own award!) who was at a celebratory peak of her professional life winning the Oscar and then she gets suckerpunched by layer after layer of betrayal. By a man she had just thanked from the Oscar dias a day or two before! And it just keeps unraveling with new “other women” coming forward.
I can’t even imagine how one lives with and recovers from this kind of intimate betrayal under such a high powered microscope. I hope she has lots of great friends and family who are there for her.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:23 pm
The only thing that I find shocking in this day and age is injustice. Being a fan of SB I have read a lot about her in years past. The one thing that I found really appealing is that she has had many men interested in her. She had always said that marriage was something that she took more serious than anything else in her life. How sad for her that this boy didn’t feel the same and fooled her into believing that he could be trusted with her heart.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:23 pm
Did anyone except me notice how RED Sandra Bullock’s lipstsick was when she accepted her academy award? She normally does not wear lipstick that RED.
After seeing the women that Jesse has had flings with, it seems like the women that REALLY ring his “sexual” chimes are over the top when it comes to displaying their sexuality.” Seems like James is especially turned on by the “bad” girl look.
Sandra is a classy lady even with her lipstick a little too red. Would James have preferred Sandra get some tats too? Did he encourage her to wear that really, really red lipstick?
I’m not angry with Jesse. He and Sandra are from two different worlds. I’m not sure he can change his preferred “taste” regarding who he is irresistably attracted to anymore than a gay person can change what sex they are REALLY sexually attracted to.
And I doubt a stay in a clinic getting treatment for sexual addition is going to help.
I believe they are just the wrong two people for each other and they need to admit that, become friends and move on.
He should let Sandra be part of Sunny’s life after the divorce to show the world he is not a complete low life and because that’s what a loving father would do since Sunny is already attached to Sandra and shouldn’t be abandoned because of her father’s mistakes.
And Sandra can be herself again and ditch that too red (for Sandra Bullock) lipstick. They are just not right for each other.
James needs to find a girl who likes to look like a very “bad” girl with bright red lipstick, over the top sexuality with lots of tats who isn’t a druggie or a porn star (if such a person exists -I’m guessing there are some out there though), and Sandra needs to find a man who wouldn’t be caught dead even in his sexual fantasies with that kind of woman.
Sandra obviously needs a man who lusts after classy, sexy ladies like Sandra instead of women who like the overtly “slutty” look.
My theory is that Jessee probably loves Sandra as a person very much, but he craves his bad girls just like gay people crave sex with members of the same sex no matter how much they might love their spouse of the opposite sex.
And I doubt all the sexual addition treatment in the world is going to change Jesse’s obvious sexual preferences for “slutty” bad girl types.
Sandra is a class act, and after her initial grieving period is over, I’m sure she will handle this graciously. I think her and James can stay friends. She can still be very much a part of Sunny’s life because it’s right for Sunny.
They are just the wrong two people for each other. He tried to cross over to the other side, but it’s just not who he is and probably never will be no matter how much he probably really does love Sandra. Much the same as some gays try very hard to be straight, but it just isn’t who they really are.
They aren’t the first couple in hollywood that didn’t work out and they won’t be the last. I am not angry with Jesse because he hasn’t embarrassed Sandra because Sandra has nothing to be embarrassed about. She didn’t do anything wrong.
She took a chance on love, and it didn’t work out – this time. Better luck next time.
He hasn’t destroyed her. She will be okay. She earned her oscar for her superb acting and she is and always will be a class act. Sometimes the truth hurts, but it is the truth that sets us free.
They are probably just the wrong two people for each other. If Jesse had been more honest with himself, he would never have tried to be someone else. He would have accepted himself the way he is and let Sandra get to know the real him.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:29 pm
It’s like when you see a great movie or play with a few friends and, as you’re exiting, and anxious to expound on what a great film/piece it was, one of your group starts to trash it. You want that person to shut up and not pop your bubble. You only want to hear good reviews. At least for those few delicious moments.
In a more profound way, Sandra just had her delicious crowning achievement of winning the Oscar when the lingering glow of that moment was cut off short by the tawdry and boring shenanigans of her piggish mate. She was supposed to be Queen of the World for at least a little while, and now she’s Victim du Jour on the covers of the tabloids. That’s why I hate Jesse James: not only is he a heel and a pig who should rot, but he had terrible timing.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:30 pm
Because she is emblematic of a weird syndrome where smart, cultured women “fall in love” with bad boys. If this guy had been a woman, Bullock would never even have had lunch with her/him. But because he had a penis, she married him, raised his kids, and exposed herself to gawdnose how many diseases.
Female silverback gorillas are prone to the same behavior. In fact, the alpha male can murder their young in their arms, and they will spontaneously bond with them.
I remain disturbed because the betrayal was of her own making and it occurred years before it became obvious that he was doing what came naturally to him.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:48 pm
Because she has never given any impression of herself other than she is a nice person. And we all cringed, well… I cringed… when she married Jesse James.
And, unfortunately, he proved us…er…me right.
April 5, 2010 @ 9:50 pm
Why am I still so upset for Sandra Bullock? Because she is a reigning member of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood and she needs some Ya-Ya Ju-Ju from her (authentic) Ya-ya’s. I KNEW it was a TOTAL mistake to get caught up with a BIKER. Traditionally men who are into their cars can’t really be into women because they can’t manipulate them into low-riders, esp Sandra. What was she thinking anyway?
This must be her last hurrah with men, (is how I call it) and soon she will have the vision and the gumption to realize the true path to Ya-Ya spiritual purity to own her Ha-Ha and come out of the closet already.
There, you have it!
April 6, 2010 @ 1:48 am
Because, she is lovely person. She had her glorious moment as Oscar winner and so profusely acknowledge her husband. Now we find out that he is scum. You know she is heart-broken and for any of us who have ever had our hearts broken, we feel strongly for her.
What is with these guys anyway?!!!!!
April 6, 2010 @ 1:58 am
I’m most upset for Sandra Bullock because:
1. She was betrayed by a tattooed jackass
2. She was probably exposed to several STD’s, not to mention HIV
3. The tattoed jackass will probably wind up with half of her earnings in spite of the infidelity due to California’s no-fault divorce laws
4. She seems like a nice kid who doesn’t deserve this in her life (who does? well, maybe Condoleeza)
I wonder if there’s a way she could come over to the dark side? 😉
April 6, 2010 @ 7:55 pm
I wouldn’t presume to describe the feelings of one of the great verbal stunt-pilots of our time, but… Sandra’s marriage seems to have been one giant leap of faith. She didn’t get married a bunch of times and then bail when her nails didn’t come out right. She married somewhat late. Jesse James isn’t my idea of a gorgeous man, which was also an endearing thing after all the Hollywood pretty boys. And then there are the serial confessions from all the women. Their 15 min. is humiliation upon humiliation for a woman who seems quite dear and lovable. She talked old Jesse up, knowing that she was pretty strong brew across class lines, etc.
I don’t usually follow Hollywood, but this one bothers me, too.
April 7, 2010 @ 5:53 am
For me, it has to do with her heartfelt speech at the Golden Globes? when she thanked Jesse, saying she had finally found someone who “had her back”, which makes this just seem like the worst kind of betrayal.
April 7, 2010 @ 7:12 am
First I was upset about her husband cheating on her, then I was upset that her husband checked into rehab as a lame attempt to show his love for her, then I became upset with the damn paparazzi and am ready to organize the creation of a club that is referred to as “the human shield” and these volunteers would literally surround her by at least 10 people deep all around. So the woman can walk in peace without those vulture paparazzis bothering her.
And as of today, I’m upset if Jesse is manipulating the situation he created by threatening to release a sex tape of them.
April 7, 2010 @ 7:44 pm
Forget Sandra Bullock (more later). Well, no. don’t forget her. Jesse is a dog, a manipulator, a betrayer of the worst kind. It’s haeartbreaking to have heard her remarks at the Oscars about him having her back and that it’s no coincidence that her work has gotten better, on and on – clearly completly trusting unconditional love. Not only betrayed but humiliated after some of the biggest moments of her life and after the loving comments. Is he a delusional tattooed Nazi to think he can get her back? Oh, wait, he is.
On another matter, my heart sank to my stomach when I played Kate’s video update about hookiing up with her old male teacher friend with three kids … yad yada … April Fool’s. You’re a good actor Kate. You got me – right in the pit of my stomach.
May 7, 2010 @ 9:00 pm
I just read on the web that Sandra Bullock goes to sleep with 9 pet dogs in her bed. Sorry, but for me that isn’t healthy at all.